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Going Pro: Should You Hire an Escort to Have a Threesome?

Did you know that almost 15 percent of Americans have taken part in a threesome before?

Additionally, about 20 percent of Americans say they find the thought of having sex with two other people at once at least a little bit appealing. This just goes to show you that threesomes aren’t quite as rare as you might think.

If you and your partner have kicked around the idea of welcoming a third party into your bedroom, you might be thinking about asking someone you know to join in on the fun. There are some people who simply feel more comfortable having group sex with someone they’re familiar with.

But you should know you do have another option if you don’t want to ask someone you know. You can hire an escort for the festivities.

Here are four reasons why this might be your best option.

1. Prevents Embarrassment

As you can probably imagine, it’s not easy to come out and ask someone to take part in a threesome with you and your partner. Even if you have friends that are very open-minded, there’s a chance that they might not be open to the idea of participating in group sex with you.

If you ask someone if they would be interested in having a threesome with you and your partner and they say no, you run the risk of being embarrassed and, even worse, ruining your friendship with them.

This is a scenario you won’t have to worry about when you ask an escort to join you and your partner in the bedroom. Escorts are routinely asked to help people live out their fantasies, and more often than not, they’re happy to oblige when they’re invited to take part in threesomes.

2. Keeps You and Your Partner Comfortable

Let’s say you do ask a friend to participate in a threesome with you and your partner and, much to your delight, they say yes. They show up at your home a few nights later prepared to get it on and everyone appears ready to get down to business.

But once things start heating up, there’s a chance that you and/or your partner might not necessarily feel as comfortable with the arrangement as you thought you would. Things could get awkward in a hurry when you realize you’re about to have sex with someone who plays a big part in another area of your life.

This is a terrible scenario to find yourself in, and it could make everyone uncomfortable throughout the course of the night. It’ll provide you with just about the worst possible experience.

This is yet another thing you won’t have to worry about when you invite an escort into your bedroom as opposed to someone you know. Once you get over your initial jitters, you and your partner will be able to ease yourselves into the situation and stay comfortable while you do it.

And if, at any point, you don’t feel comfortable with the arrangement, you can always pull the plug on it without feeling bad. 

3. Helps Avoid Hard Feelings

When you and your partner are engaging in a threesome with another person, you’re going to see your partner do some things with the other person that could potentially make you jealous. It can take time to get used to seeing your partner participating in sex acts with a third party.

If you’re not careful, you could even start to develop some hard feelings for both your partner and the other person throughout your threesome. If it appears as though your partner is enjoying sex more than usual with someone else, it might make you mad.

You’re less likely to experience these kinds of hard feelings when you and your partner have threesomes with escorts. Since you don’t have any real connection with an escort, you’re probably not going to get upset seeing your significant other getting intimate with them.

Regardless of whether you invite a friend or an escort into a threesome, though, it’s important for you and your spouse to maintain open lines of communication. If you aren’t happy with something your spouse says or does during sex with another person, let them know about it instead of harboring hard feelings for them.

4. Makes It Easy to Do It Again

There are many couples that have threesomes once and then never do it again. Some don’t enjoy the experience as much as they thought they would while others move on to other forms of experimentation in the bedroom.

But there are also many couples that fall in love with threesomes after their first time and want to continue having them well into the future. And after a while, it can be tough for them to find people they know to take part in them.

This won’t be a problem when you have the name and number of a good escort. Whether you want to have a threesome one time or have one every Friday night, an escort can cater to your needs and make sure your fantasies are fulfilled.

This useful link can show some of the other ways in which escorts can help you lead a more fulfilling sex life. There are all kinds of things they can do to make sure you and your partner are satisfied at all times.

Hire an Escort for Your First Threesome

If you and your partner want to have your first threesome but you don’t feel comfortable asking someone you know to take part in it, hire an escort instead.

An escort will come to your home, a hotel room, or just about anywhere else you want to meet up for some fun. They’ll be as open-minded as you want them to be and allow you to see what all the hype is about when it comes to threesomes.

Take a look at our blog to find out some of the other ways you and your partner can spice up your sex life.