Flower Language 101: The Hidden Meaning of Flowers

Flowers have been used to express messages for thousands of years. The modern history of flower language originates in France, with an official publication in 1819 outlining the meaning of flowers.

The exact message of various flowers has changed slightly over the centuries. As books get translated and cultures change, the messages are altered to fit their contexts. But the core language or feeling of the flowers has remained fairly consistent. 

Use this flower language to tell a loved one a secret message with your next floral arrangements. Keep reading to learn more!

Bouquet Arrangements

Bouquet arrangements are the easiest way to use flower language. In theory, you could plant an entire garden, but that’s not the most reasonable option. 

But make sure you take careful notes when creating your flower arrangements. Bouquet meanings aren’t influenced by the flowers alone – the placement of the flowers and leaves can contribute to the message, too. 

Leaves and Leaning

Some extra leaves tucked into the bouquet can add to your story. Leaves enhance the message of the flowers.

For example, if you’re sending the message of love with the flowers in the bouquet, fern leaves add “everlasting” to the message, making it a message of everlasting love. Basil leaves show best wishes, and a four-leafed clover says “be mine.” 

Bouquets don’t only have a single message, either. You can add a few messages by manipulating the direction of the bouquet. The parts of the arrangement leaning to the left express you (the flower giver), and the parts of the arrangement leaning to the right express the flower receiver. 

The point is that flower language isn’t limited to flowers themselves. You can craft elaborate stories from simple arrangements of flowers and leaves.

Popular Flower Messages

Every flower has a meaning, so figuring out which to choose can be a bit overwhelming.

Here are some of the most popular options that you might want for different events. 

Love and Romantic Flowers

If you’re wanting to get flowers for that special someone, these are some popular choices. Remember, you don’t have to wait for an event to get them flowers!

  • Dark red carnations = deep love, affection
  • Yellow roses = friendship
  • Camelia = love, affection, admiration
  • Calla lily = magnificent beauty

Condolence Flowers

Flowers are a common way to express condolences when our loved ones are grieving. They’re a great way to honor grief and love and try to brighten up a space. 

  • Pink carnations = an undying love (usually from a woman)
  • Poppies = remembrance, consolation
  • Purple hyacinths = sorrow

Congratulations Flowers

When things go well for our loved ones, we get them flowers! Here are some popular celebratory flowers for your bouquet. 

  • Daisies = friendship
  • Daffodils = new beginnings
  • Orchids = pride, maturity

Most of these would work as birthday flowers, too. 

Using Flower Language to Share a Message

Flower language is a great way to tell your loved ones what you’re thinking. From sharing condolences to congratulations, or sparking some romance, flowers let you express your emotions.

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