The 2017 Millenial Sex Survey found that 35% of female participants and 15% of male participants had engaged in anal sex “at least some of the time.”
Long considered taboo, anal sex has been normalized over the last decade. Along with that normalization, the market for anal sex toys has also grown.
If you’re new to anal play, then you should know that purchasing a toy is no insignificant matter. You need to know how to choose according to your experience, what toys are best for what body parts, and the different types of toys.
We’re going to explain all that and more in this quick guide to buying the best anal sex toys for your comfort. Keep reading to learn more.
Choose Anal Sex Toys According to Experience Level
The human body should not be introduced to anal penetration without preparation. In order to practice safe and enjoyable anal sex, you must first train and prepare the anus.
An anal training kit is a great place to start. They help you adjust to the sensations of anal sex and anal play over time. By giving your body the opportunity to become accustomed to touching, teasing, and even penetration, anal sex will be more comfortable.
Choose the Best Anal Sex Toys for the Best Body Part
For individuals with a prostate, prostate orgasms occur through prostate stimulation or massage. Because the prostate is located just below the bladder and in front of the rectum, this requires an anal dildo, vibrator, beads, or butt plug to penetrate the anus.
For individuals with a vulva, orgasms can occur through stimulation of the anterior fornix erogenous zone, located between the cervix and bladder at the end of the vaginal canal. Different from the G-spot, this area can be reached with anal dildos, vibrators, butt plugs, and beads.
Know the Different Anal Sex Toys
We couldn’t possibly name all anal toys in this quick guide because there are 1000s of different anal sex toys for men and women. Instead, we’ve explained the 4 most common toys and how they’re used.
- Butt plugs are bulb-shaped toys that are inserted into the anus for a short period of time prior to sex. They’re intended to stretch and relax the sphincter muscles and prepare the body for anal play.
- Anal dildos are different from vaginal dildos in that they’re curved to provide prostate stimulation. They usually have a wider base or a flare that prevents the dildo from entering too far into the anus.
- Anal beads are a chain of beads beginning from small to large that are inserted into the anus. These are great for both men and women as well as beginners.
- Anal vibrators produce a vibration either inside or outside the rectum. They may come as beads, plugs, dildos, and more.
Regardless of what anal sex toy you begin with, make sure that you use lubrication.
Dive Deeper Into Sex
Anal sex toys are a great way to introduce anal pleasure into your sex life. They allow you to adjust to the sensations of anal play in a safe and comfortable way. But in order for them to fulfill that role, you have to research and choose the right toy for you.
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